The Famfare

Saturday, May 12, 2007

I know, I know...

I downloaded 388 pictures off of my camera tonight. I had to; my memory card filled up today. So tonight I got all caught up with the AREA 365 photos. You should check them out. I uploaded from May 2 through May 12.

We've been pretty busy around the Oda household lately. GG came over the other day and watched Oda Mae while Oda Momma and I went out to support one of our friends who received a very prestigious honor. She was named one of the Great 100 Nurses in our area, and we went with her and her family to the ceremony and then out to eat.

Oda Mae has been singing and playing "princess" (Barbie's) nonstop for the last couple of days. She is really into the Disney Princess' now. I bought her a Princess night gown last time I was out of town and she loves it.

On the SAHD side of things, Oda Mae has been resisting everything lately. She doesn't want to get dressed, get her diaper changed, clean her hands, or anything else I deem necessary for her to do. It seems that if I tell her what I want her to do and say to her "You tell me when you are ready to do it..." and walk away, she reacts pretty quickly. Oda Momma and I discussed these little tantrums the other day. We figure that she wants to be in charge of some things, so we've started giving her her way. We tell her you can do this or that, you let me know when you are ready to do this. It seems to be working really well....for now.

This approach seems to work well for me. We've both tried other forms of discipline. Nothing else seemed to do any good. Hopefully this will work for a long time.

I've still been practicing a lot even though my gigging "season" is pretty much over. I've started a new project of recording myself often. It seems to be helping a lot! I have something to say...
Approximately one year from now, my life is going to drastically change for the better. I can't tell anyone other than those I've already told what will happen, but rest assured, it WILL happen. How? It's a secret. Thanks Sis!!!!!

Dominus Vobiscum!

-OD

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Tuesday, May 8, 2007

Collecting Dead Relatives

Here we are again. I need to post more often. I've been really busy the last couple of weeks, but I should be able to post more often now that my regular playing season is over.

Today's post is very much genealogically related, and is the beginning of a series of CDR posts about a project I've been working on for a few years.

I started working on my genealogy about four years ago. It kind of started with a "dream" project and evolved into a very satisfying hobby. For years, the only thing I was interested in was playing the trumpet. Not that that is a bad thing, but it's all I had. When I started working on my genealogy there was finally something other than music that could keep my attention and filled some spare time in my life.

I will ever stop working on my genealogy because I have so much to work on at this point in my research, but I realized part of that "dream" project last week. What was my project? Well, it started with a family legend....

My maternal grandfather (Paw) was supposedly part Native American. Possibly Creek or Cherokee, but nobody knew for sure. His father was never a part of his life and had been estranged for many, many years. I was told that his grandmother was a full blood indian and her name was "Morning Star". Whether or not any of this information was accurate or where it really came from was anybody's guess. My mother said that some people in my family including Paw had tried to find out information about these questions, but to all of our regrets, nobody ever had any luck. I told my mother and grandmother that I would look into it, and if there was anything to be found I could find it. I was up to the challenge and looking forward to it.

Nearly four years later, after countless hours of research I, my daughter, mother, sister, and nephews are legal citizens of the Creek Nation. Last week we received our "Certificates of Degree of Indian Blood" from the U. S. Department of the Interior, Bureau of Indian Affairs in Okmulgee, Oklahoma.

During the next few weeks, I'll post about how all of this came about. These blog posts will be the beginning of a family history article I plan to write for a writing competition next spring. Hopefully, this will give me a good start.

I'll catch up on the AREA 365 pictures soon.

Dominus Vobiscum!

-OD